Extra time is running out, but we are winning!

After speaking with the doctors this morning, it is becoming clear that we are very near the end of this phase of Hugh's existence. Tumors are invading the bladder and causing serious problems. We understand that the treatments that would be required to address the bladder issues Hugh is now experiencing would be invasive and painful and probably would neither buy much time nor give him much if any comfort. We have therefore decided to make him as comfortable as possible. The doctor's best guess is that kidney failure will follow within a day or two.

We asked Hugh how he felt about this and he replied that he still had a few bills to pay! However, after some reflection, he also said he felt ready. He says he's got to move on, and keep moving forward. He's also been quick to express his love and appreciation to his family and friends.

We very much appreciate the comfort and support that so many of you have given. It is probably best that we keep visitors to a minimum now so that the family can make the most of the time they have left.

At times like these we are especially grateful for the gospel. Living the gospel does not mean you will be free of adversity or always healed from sicknesses or protected from accidents or troubles. But it does mean you can have comfort and the assurance that the Lord is mindful of you and that he loves you, and that come what may, all will be well in the end. We see such a tiny slice of eternity, and it means everything to us, but the Lord sees the whole view and knows what is best for us eternally. We also have the wonderful assurance of knowing that we have covenanted with God, that we have kept our covenants, and that he never breaks his end of the deal. The promises are sure, and that is a source of great comfort. Although things like this are some of the hardest things we have to deal with in mortality, we also get to see a great deal of the tender mercies of our Father in Heaven as we go through these things. Much of that has come through the outpouring of love that has come from family and friends.

Thanks,
David Dearden